I didn’t want to go on a dating application, but it became increasingly harder to find a mate as I got older.
You try to naturally strike up a conversation with someone of your interest at work, church, or social events, but you don’t have any luck, I had spent too several years complacently doing the same things and expecting different results, so I broke down as well as downloaded more than one dating apps on our PC.
In our mind, I couldn’t be too disappointed if I kept our expectations lowered and didn’t believe that I’d find the love of my life instantaneously. I went on a handful of dates with good women who would make excellent friends, but we all admitted a mutual lack of chemistry. But when I finally met my current partner Jenna, I was amazed by how much we shared right from the start. We were both originally from the same north midwestern state, worked in the same industry, played the same instruments, as well as shared a love of cannabis as well as its variants. In the past I have struggled to find significant others who were okay with our cannabis use, let alone have any desire to partake in it with me. I respect that, but I’m not a large fan of alcohol myself. It was clear to me years ago that I needed to find someone on the same page as I am, then dating another marijuana user prevents those awkward moments when your partner judges you for enjoying a substance that they simply don’t understand. I’m good with a partner drinking responsibly even if I don’t drink myself.