When my spouse plus I met, she had just gotten out of a 10-year relationship with a fairly abusive person.
The guy drank a huge amount plus abused her plus her daughter.
She actually did not want to go back to an abusive or domestic violence situation. I really never expected to find myself in a long-term relationship with a woman with a child, but that is what happened. We actually fell in love right away plus started seeing each other almost every single morning. When my girlfriend mentioned her hate for people that smoke cannabis products, I did not mention the fact that I use recreational marijuana all the time. It was still early in our relationship plus I was genuinely thinking there would be a better time to bring it up. Things got extreme in no time plus now it feels like I am lying plus hiding my recreational marijuana use. I get high at work with my good buddies plus I get high before I come back to the property. Marijuana does not alter my behavior in any way, because I have been smoking for a fairly long period of time. My girlfriend does not know that I have been smoking, although I really feel that I should tell her. It’s never a great move at all to start a relationship off with a lie, but honestly, I got stuck in this lie plus I do not know how to make things right. At this point, I am actually concerned that she is not going to want to continue dating me if she finds out about this. That is just one more reason for me to continue hiding it from her.